How to stop giving all your f*cks away

May 7

so you can create a fulfilling life & a thriving business

Here’s the sitch

At the beginning of 2022 I shared a little song I like to sing on IG called “stop giving a f*ck about what other people think” and people loved it.

I’ve linked the reel here for you! Press play to watch 👀

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Why did it resonate?

Because we all know what it feels like to give too many f*cks about what other people think.

It’s exhausting & it only leads to:

You doubting yourself which sounds like “I can’t do this, what if I suck at it?”
You holding yourself back which sounds like “Who am I to do this, what will people think?”
You procrastinating on what you really want to create which sounds like “I don’t know where to start or how”

And what do these thoughts all have in common?

They’re all rooted in fear.

Fear of Failure.

Fear of Rejection.

Fear of being Misunderstood.

Because when you’re terrified of failing or being rejected you’re consumed with thoughts about

What could go wrong
What people will think
What people might say
What that would mean about you

Well I say F*ck em.

Because here’s the truth… It would mean absolutely nothing about you

Unless you made it mean something.

You are the one who gets to decide
And when you really get that

You’re free.

Let's imagine you put yourself out there & got your heart broken, you could make it mean...

a) that you got rejected & will never find love again OR

b) that you got redirected towards someone way more aligned for you

You get to decide.

Let's imagine your business idea doesn't work out on the first go, you could make it mean

a) that you suck at business & should just quit OR

b) that you have a great idea that needs a different strategy

You get to decide.

Let's imagine you find yourself attracting the same types of unhealthy relationships, you could make it mean

a) that all men suck & can’t be trusted OR you could make it mean

b) absolutely nothing about men and reflect on the part of you that attracts unavailable people because unconsciously that’s what you think you deserve but you’re ready to heal that belief so you can attract an amazing & available lover

You get to decide.

OR you could make it all mean absolutely nothing at all or something completely different.

The point is, you get to decide!

The more f*cks you give to your fears, the less energy you have to create what you actually want.

The more f*cks you give about what other people might think, the more time you spend in a downward spiral of shame that serves no one, especially not you.

So here’s what to do instead

Stop. Giving. A. Fuck. About. What. Other. People. Think.

(& watch the reel if you haven’t already)

Because the truth is those who love you wanna see you soar & those who judge you are only judging you because they are judging themselves.

So instead of holding yourself back, give yourself permission to just start as you are right here, right now.

Let it be imperfect, let yourself try & fail, let yourself get redirected, let people misunderstand you, let it be messy

It doesn’t mean anything about YOU.

Friends will have their opinions.

Family members are going to say what they say and do what they do.

Strangers will troll.

Let them.

Your only job is to stay focused on what it is you want to create & then have the audacity to claim it in-spite of what other people do, think or say.

That is your power.

So if you take anything from this post, let it be thi:

You are the one who gets to chose what meaning you do or don’t attach to your circumstances.

And when you really get that

You’re free.

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