Your “need to know” the outcome

is the #1 reason why you don’t have what you want.

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Your need for things to be certain before you take action is the very thing blocking you from what you actually want to create in your life and this sounds like:

I need to know that …

➡️ the book I want to write will sell copies

➡️ the business I want to start will be lucrative

➡️ I’ll lose the weight if I follow this nutrition plan

➡️ I’ll find love again if I end this relationship

The truth?

⁉️ Your book might not sell any copies

⁉️ Your business might make $0 in profit

⁉️ Your weight might not change

⁉️ You might not find another lover

But here’s the deeper truth …

Your need to know the outcome before you take action, or put in a different way, your need to control the outcome AKA “be certain it will work” is exactly what’s holding you back from seeing what you are truly capable of creating & achieving.

Here’s what to do instead …

Learn how to trust the process by taking small steps towards what you want with the awareness that you can’t control how the future unfolds, the only thing you can control is how you show up.

I hate to break it to you babe but you’re not the queen of the universe & you don’t actually know what’s going to be best for you in 6 months from now because things change, life is unpredictable and did I mention, you’re not in charge of the universe.

So let’s try this on …

What if your life turns out far greater than you could ever imagine

📖 What if your book sells millions of copies

💸 What if your business idea takes off, generates more money than you thought possible & impacts thousands of people

💃 What if you loose all the weight, feel incredible and then help others do it to

❤️‍🔥 What if you find a lover that blows your mind in the bedroom but even more so in life by the unconditional love & support they provide day in and day out

And this all happens because you finally realized that needing to know it would all work out before you even started, was the exact thing blocking you from having it all work out.

Because this is the thing… it will all work out, maybe not in the exact way you “think it should” right now but in the way it’s meant to which you couldn’t possibly understand or know yet because you’re not suppose to and need I remind you, you’re not in charge of the universe.

Your only job is to honour what it is you want, trust the process and have the courage to take the next step most intelligent step to create it.

When you build momentum, clarity comes and you realize that you don’t need to figure it all out on your own and you definitely don’t need to have it all figured out before you start.

And don’t worry, I’m not going to leave you hanging, I want to see you bring your vision to life & feel the success that inevitably comes when you show-up to make it happen, one step at a time.

My 6 month coaching accelerator is designed to help you break free from the stop-start cycle you’ve been in so you can create momentum on that book, business idea, project or desire you know in your bones your meant to create.

This is what you actually need to succeed in sticking with it…

➡️ a practical, simple process that helps you move out of avoidance and into action and that my friend, is my speciality. Because I’ve walked the path myself & having the right support paired with a simple plan that honours your pace is what makes it all possible.

These are the keys to overcoming overwhelm, procrastination & the unknown:

🔑 setting realistic expectations for yourself & then following-through because it’s doable

🔑 understanding how too work with your nervous system so you can move through triggers & fears with more grace & compassion

🔑 breaking things down into manageable steps so you keep the momentum going without burning out

🔑 just starting, learning as you go & celebrating all your wins along the way

🔑 slowing down & embracing all your emotions with unconditional love & acceptance

This is how you build confidence & self-trust. Start small. Keep it simple. Practice Patience. Cue success.

If you’re ready to confidently create momentum in your life & wave bye to the stop-start cycle for good then I’d love to invite you to …

Big Love,

Blythe xx